What ought?

Maybe all that one needs, most days, is someone that cares enough to listen about your day. And someone that you are fond of enough, to listen about their day.

Do you think that is enough?

Or must you work towards more?

I don't know man, it seems like i'm very intense. It either is up up and away. Or crash and burn. I'm not good at simmering. At the start I always think i'm ok with the first paragraph, all I want is the first paragraph and it is true!! 

But then after that... I want more!

Idk man, I feel the first paragraph thing feels like a base human need... The issue then, is it is not just about someone that cares enough to listen about your day. I mean... most parents would care enough to listen to your day? Or actually maybe they just appear to care enough but they actually don't? But my point is not about parents, its about caring in an appropriate way, like I guess, can value add. Otherwise its just like talking to a robot.

Think maybe there's a problem in that... It's like greed or something. Maybe that's why i keep pushing people away. Actually maybe I don't push people away, maybe I ask too much of them until they leave?